Our Mission
The Healing Connection empowers members of our community who struggle with eating disorders and other mental health challenges to repair disconnection and reclaim their lives through treatment, education, and advocacy. We do this in an inclusive environment that engages individuals- and those who love and support them - in compassionate, evidence-based care. Our commitment means we strive to provide accessible, culturally responsive care that affirms all identities and lived experiences.
“We are hardwired to connect with others; it’s what gives purpose and meaning to our lives, and without it there is suffering.”
Our History
The Healing Connection is the only non-profit community-based organization based in Upstate New York dedicated to providing compassionate, specialized care for individuals struggling with eating disorders and co-occurring mental health concerns. As a nonprofit, our work is guided not by profit, but by purpose.
The Healing Connection was Founded in 2009 by Dr. Mary Tantillo. What began as a small, mission-driven program has grown into a comprehensive continuum of care - while staying grounded in its core values of connection, dignity, and access to treatment.
Our Treatment Philosophy
At The Healing Connection, we believe recovery happens through connection. Healing begins by rebuilding relationships - with yourself, with others, and with the world.
Eating disorders often create isolation and disconnect. Our approach focuses on restoring those connections through relationship-based, family-inclusive care. We help individuals and their loved ones build strong, supportive networks that foster lasting recovery.
You are welcome here exactly as you are. Our environment is calm, respectful, and compassionate - because healing happens best when people feel safe, understood, and supported.
Our care is grounded in evidence-based treatment and guided by human connection. Across every level of care, our team walks alongside you with expertise, collaboration, and encouragement.
Recovery is not linear, and it does not require perfection. With the right support, meaningful recovery is possible.
If you or someone you love is struggling, you are not alone. We are here and ready to support you on your journey.
Many people with eating disorders do recover, either fully or meaningfully, especially with early intervention, ongoing support, and compassionate care.
Nearly 9% of people in the United States - almost 30 million individuals - will experience an eating disorder in their lifetime.
The Healing Connection delivers over 12,000 points of service each year.
“Learning how the ED is a disease of disconnection was very helpful. The program helped us make connections with others. This is the key to making a full recovery . . . small, steady steps forward.”
“It takes a certain level of trust to be successful in ED recovery. The Healing Connection provided me with a safe place to uncover, discover, and discard. I will always have a special place in my heart for the time I’ve spent here. This place saved my life. The work that is done here is difficult and agonizing at times, and is totally necessary at the same time. I always had someone to lean on. Some to hold my hand while I did the work. I am forever in debt to THC for all its done and it will continue to do in my recovery.”